Remove $FreeBSD$: one-line sh pattern

Remove /^\s*#[#!]?\s*\$FreeBSD\$.*$\n/

pkgbase: Create a FreeBSD-netmap package

This unbloat FreeBSD-utilities a bit and not everyone uses
valectl which is the only in-tree consumer of libnetmap

Sponsored by: Beckhoff Automation GmbH & Co. KG
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D38225

netmap: valectl: switch to libnetmap

Use the newer libnetmap (included in base) rather than the older
nm_open()/nm_close() defined in netmap_user.h

MFC after: 3 days

add valectl to the system commands

The valectl(4) program is used to manage vale(4) switches.
Add it to the system commands so that it can be used right away.
This program was previously called vale-ctl, and stored in
tools/tools/netmap

Reviewed by: hrs, bcr, lwhsu, kevans
MFC after: 1 week
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D22146