tpcdump: Update to 4.99.4

Local changes:

- Update some local modifications to fix build
- Synch config.h with upstream as much as possible

Changelog: https://git.tcpdump.org/tcpdump/blob/55bc126b0216cfe409b8d6bd378f65679d136ddf:/CHANGES
Reviewed by: emaste
Obtained from: https://www.tcpdump.org/release/tcpdump-4.99.4.tar.gz
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation

MFV r285191: tcpdump 4.7.4.

Also, the changes made in r272451 and r272653 that were lost in the
merge of 4.6.2 (r276788) have been restored.

PR: 199568
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D3007
Reviewed by: brooks, hiren
Approved by: jmallett (mentor)
MFC after: 1 month

MFV r276761: tcpdump 4.6.2.

MFC after: 1 month