MFC r314654:

cddl: normalize paths using SRCTOP-relative paths or :H when possible

This simplifies make logic/output

While here, remove bogus CFLAGS which look for headers in cddl/lib/libumem.
There aren't any source files there (just Makefiles)

MFC r264400,r265836:

r264400:

NO_MAN= has been deprecated in favor of MAN= for some time, go ahead
and finish the job. ncurses is now the only Makefile in the tree that
uses it since it wasn't a simple mechanical change, and will be
addressed in a future commit.

r265836:

Remove last two NO_MAN= in the tree. In both of these cases, MAN= is
what is needed.

MFC r264400,r265836:

r264400:

NO_MAN= has been deprecated in favor of MAN= for some time, go ahead
and finish the job. ncurses is now the only Makefile in the tree that
uses it since it wasn't a simple mechanical change, and will be
addressed in a future commit.

r265836:

Remove last two NO_MAN= in the tree. In both of these cases, MAN= is
what is needed.